A client of mine constantly kept herself in the shadows, not confident enough to speak out, at work or at home. She avoided social interactions, as making conversation was an uphill struggle, finding this so awkward and uncomfortable that she would stress over it for days.
It felt easier to her to withdraw from the world, to stay alone. Being isolated in this way though caused her to feel the same anxiety but with a different cause, she needed the interaction with others, as we all do. She became depressed, felt that life was just a struggle and she couldn’t cope.
Are you avoiding people? Do you find expressing yourself really hard? Do you struggle to say no? When you suffer from low self-esteem everything can feel like a problem. From worrying about how you look, what you say and how you do things to whether you are good enough or stressing about what others think of you.
Constant conversations or the re-running of events go round in your head. Stress, worry and anxiety become close companions.
A lack of confidence keeps you stuck, unable to go out there and get what you want. You may feel that you don’t deserve the good things in life and you experience negative self-talk that you certainly wouldn’t put up with from anyone else. Putting yourself down has become normal to the point of not noticing it anymore.
The solution isn’t as hard as you may think. You’ve just forgotten who you are. You have temporarily lost connection with the unique and special individual that you truly are.
I want to help you to become the person you were meant to be. The person you were before the world told you who you should be.
Imagine, a lightness in your step, a calm and confident strength within you. Easily finding your voice, comfortable to express your ideas and beliefs. Building friendly and positive connections with others, where conversation flows, without the constant thinking about what to say next.
You’ll be sleeping better and having more energy. You’ll feel more productive and content inside. Your relationships will improve and so will your health.
You’ll leave that job you hate or disconnect from the people who bring you down. Imagine also being able to say no to the things that you don’t want to do.
You deserve this and all of this is inside of you already.
Why waste the next month, the next year or ten years keeping yourself in the dark when you don’t have to? Problems grow if left. It’s ruining your life already; you don’t want to leave this until your health and wellbeing deteriorate further because you did nothing about it.
It’s time to learn some valuable insight and tools to help your light shine again. You ARE worth it, let me remind you of this until you can know it again for yourself.
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